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Planning Your First Date

A first date is usually a chance for two people to get to know one another a little bit better, and to decide whether they want to pursue a relationship together. Choosing the right setting for the first date is, therefore, essential. You both need to feel comfortable, you need to be able to talk, and ideally, you need a little bit of romance. The perfect setting for a first date will depend on the sort of relationship you already have with the person you are meeting, where you live, and the sorts to things that you are both interested in.

If you are going on a date with someone you barely know, for example a blind date or a date with someone who you have only just met, then you should aim for a fairly casual date, in a place where you will be able to talk properly. The same holds true of a first real life date with someone you have met online. Although you already know each other through the Internet, you have not yet met in person, so you need to choose a safe, public location where you will feel comfortable. Meeting for coffee or lunch can be a good idea, as it will be fairly casual so you will not feel under too much pressure.

If you already know the person you are going on a date with, perhaps as a work colleague or a friend, then you can be a little bit more adventurous. Since you are already familiar with each other, your first date should be a lot less nerve-wracking than most, and it will in fact be more like a second or third date. You should be thinking more about shifting the boundaries of your relationship than finding out basic information about each other. Choose somewhere romantic, like an intimate restaurant. You may even want to make a home cooked meal. As you already know a little about each other, you can also choose a date that you know suits your shared interests. If there is a film or an event that you both want to attend, then it can be the perfect first date, as you will both enjoy the event. It will also be easier to ask the other person out, as you will be able to suggest an interesting place to meet.

To make your first date a success, you need to make a good first impression. You might want to treat yourself to a haircut or a new outfit before you go on your date in order to boost your confidence and make sure you are looking your best. You should wear something that you feel comfortable in, however, since you don't want to be thinking about your clothes while you are on your date.

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